The problem of fraud and dishonesty is one of the principal Internet problems, and the reason for that is that we don't know personally those people with whom we talk in the chat, correspond on the sites or try to meet in real life. This is very dangerous both for men and women. It is widely believed among those men seeking their other half in Russia and other countries of former USSR that every other Russian woman is a scammer and prostitute. The similar belief exists among women who think that every second man seeking in the Internet is a sex tourist.
Of course, such people exist and sometimes come to the dating sites with their own goals and plans, but our task is to beware of these people and to try to reveal them before some serious trouble may happen.
If you want to stay away from scammers try to follow simple rules:
Never send or transfer money to the lady.
By nature women are fond of new things and clothes and not always good at counting money. This is quite the same for ladies from any country. Of course, there are exceptions from this rule, but it's no good trying to press your luck. It means that if a lady is going to come and meet you, you'd better use an airlines agency or a reliable travel agency.
Never think that your penpal will fall in love with you after a month or two of communication via Internet. To understand if you need this person, you need to meet him/her in real life first. Of course, correspondence will enable you to learn about his/her thoughts, tastes, preferences, but in fact, you will never be able to understand his/her nature, behavior and reaction to this or that event. That is why before thinking "It's love", first meet the person and spend at least a week with him/her. Then you will know for sure if you need each other.
Use the services of the professional interpreters. You may think - "What I need them for? The lady must know English - she is going to meet me". Yes, girls study English at school, and some of them continue studying it in the university, but you shouldn't forget that they have no practice of oral or written speech. Experience shows that most ladies who come to the agency, are sure that they know English rather well, but actually, they don't understand even half a letter. That is why ladies usually need the interpreter's help.
Ask a lady to send you as many amateur photos as possible. The swindlers often use the photos of the ladies stolen from other sites and commit fraud on behalf of them. The real lady whose photos are used for these purposes may be completely unaware of this. After that the lady usually finds herself in a scam-list, absolutely unexpectedly for herself.
Large agencies value their reputation. They check the identity of the ladies' data, make and keep the copies of their documents (passports etc.) in order to prevent fraud at the very beginning. The smaller local agencies don't do it, as a rule. They may accept ladies who are still married or wishing to leave the country fraudulently, and then to bring there their family. Large agencies stop such ladies at once. They also perform organization of the tours. If you go by yourself, nobody can guarantee you safety, and such a trip sometimes may finish very sadly.
When seeking your other half, you shouldn't create illusions for yourself that the wife from a poorer country will cost you cheap or be free at all. It's not true.
If a man thinks that he is the mere aim of a fraud coming to the former USSR, he is mistaken.
There are several kinds of fraud committed against women:
The complete "cleaning out" of the lady. Many ladies possess an apartment, some jewels or an old car, and they are the swindler's prize. He persuades the lady to sell everything in order to come and meet him, then takes her money and is gone in a flash. There also were men who robbed the ladies already after their arrival to a foreign country.
Sexual exploitation. A man comes to the lady's country in order to have a good time very cheaply, or he invites her to a no-visa country in order to have a chance to know each other better, or after they meet, he can invite her to his country; he lives with her, until he gets tired of her, and after that he just drives her out. Men think that nobody will look for her in a foreign country, because she has no rights there. Very often he at the same time looks for another victim in the Internet.
There are a lot of sites with scam-lists in the Internet, but a half of them is just a fraud meant to delude the men! Many mens' complaints are lies or deliberate misrepresentation of the facts. Some men even pay these scam-lists for publishing of the data of those ladies, with whom they failed to put things right. Just think for a minute how can an anti-scam list to be honest if it charges money from a cheated men to publish their stories? They make money on the grief of cheated men. Why only men can add their testimonials there? Why is it not possible to deleted the report if it turned out to be far away from truth?
If you see a lady's photo, name and address in a scam-list, ask the website administrator why she was placed there. Of course, there are real scam-lists - with photos, names, addresses, complete correspondence, dates, sums and money orders numbers and other data. If such information is absent in the scam-list, the lady is likely to have been placed there by a man with unstable mind and vindictive nature because she refused to communicate with him.
Even a large website cannot give you a 100% guarantee.
The large websites do their best to protect both sides from possible frauds - they check passport and contact data, call the clients etc. But even all this is not enough if a man and a woman failed to establish desired relations with each other. No site gives a 100% guarantee that they will be able to get along well.
We would like you to realize that international dating is not Internet shop, ladies publishing their profiles there are not items from the catalogue to be ordered and paid on-line.
The members of the website need to take into the account that they are not obliged to correspond with each other. They also should take into consideration the requirements to a desired partner in the profiles.
We are glad to help and support you in your search, you are welcome to share your stories and suspicions with us, we will check all the reports coming to the administrator of the website and help you to avoid the fraud and scam accidents in your internet dating experience.
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We wish you the best luck in the search of your other half!
